Love is the butterflies that you
get in your stomach when you are around that certain person, not the nervous
kind though. Everyone has probably heard
from some sort of adult figure in their life thus far, that being in high
school you cannot understand love or don’t know what love is since you are so
young. Being in love doesn’t mean
“having the Sunday church giggles” or having “googely eyes”. “Googely eyes” is when you get that twinkle
in your eye whenever you see that person or hear their voice. That special
person must treat you the same way in front of your friends, his friends, your
family, and his family and when you are alone; and you should do the same. There was a quote I saw on a social Internet
site, “If the person you are with can’t love you at your best than he sure doesn’t
deserve you at your worst.” This
statement say it all plain and simple, and you know that person loves you when
you are in tears and they will do anything and everything in their power to
cheer you up.
In
having a relationship you will have your fair share of arguments that will hurt
you and make you upset, but a good relationship will have open communication
and you both have to be willing to listen, sometimes that is very hard because
in reality it honestly doesn’t matter who is right and who is wrong. When having and an argument that can make you
break up or even not want to talk for a few hours, and sometimes days it isn’t
how many disputes you have had as a couple it is how you learn to listen and
deal with them and to be able to forgive.
There will be
times when you don’t want to look at the special person not because of
something that they have done but because you are frustrated and you know if
you look at them you will break down and you are trying to be strong, but being
strong isn’t always best. In being
strong all the time, you both need to tale turns and always be strong for each
other. An example of not being strong
all of the time would be taking some “you” time and just relaxing, not always
taking care of someone. There will be
days when you need someone to lean on and that will help you through the
roughest and the best days.
You and your
partner do not have to have every single thing in common but you do have to
dislike the same things, and that is a good thing to have in common. Although there can be some hobbies that you
have in common and that you like to go and do together.
The most important
thing in any relationship is for the man to have chivalry; the normal of
opening the doors for you, fixing your necklace so that the clasp isn’t
showing, or not caring if you do your make-up he will think that you look
beautiful no matter what you are wearing.
If the guy you are with doesn’t think you are “drop-dead-gorgeous” in
your sweatpants, your hair all messy, and no make up then he does not deserve
to see you in your wedding dress.
